My Answer to ThisAs a person without a child, I don't think this is entirely accurate, especially about the "sleeping in on the weekends, travel at a moment's notice, and have more disposable income."
I too have obligations that I have to accomplish, even on weekends. I can't travel at a moments notice and I don't have a lot of disposable income.
I have friends with two children, a house with all the accoutrements, two cars and a lot of other extras. Meanwhile I live in an apartment and have a car that was given to me. They both work and if they can't afford something then it's their own fault.
I am always the one that has to go see them because "they have kids and I don't so obviously I have all the time in the universe to visit them." I'm here to tell you that single people these days don't have all the time in the world to visit and have fun. We have obligations too.
I fail to see why the husband can't take the kids every so often so that my friend can come and see me every so often. I have a lot of resentment that people with kids seem to think that it is more convenient if I come over. Sure, it's more convenient for THEM, but not for me. And it costs me money every time I hop in the car and travel to see them. Gas is expensive.
My friend's children constantly interrupt while we're talking on the phone and it's very detrimental to a conversation. But clearly that's MY problem that she can't control her children.
And that's not to mention the fact that she is consistantly late whenever we do meet. Why, because of her kids. Honestly people, if you know that your kids are slow, start an hour or hour and a half earlier. Or get their things prepared the night before. It's called Time Management. Would your employer allow you to be late an hour and a half every morning? No. And you seem to make it to work everyday on time. So why is it, when I am always 15 minutes early, you're always an hour and a half late? Don't give me ""my kids are slow." Read "I couldn't be bothered to respect your time because you are childless."
Sorry, I had to vent. I really resent the fact that people with children adopt the "Holier Than Thou" attitude because I have no children. My not having kids is not my fault. If I had a choice, I'd join the ranks of the "Holier Than Thou" too.
It's not that I don't like kids, but have some respect for other people and don't use your children as excuses for your lack of respect.